| A vibrator or vibe is a battery
or electric powered device used for sexual pleasure. The
traditional vibrator is a slim, smooth cylinder, usually
made of plastic, powered by batteries in the base of the
vibe. There are also dual-action, which consist of a shaft
that may rotate in different directions, vibrate, have
gyrating beads or balls, be textured or all of the above.
They also have a clitoral stimulator attached at the base
of the shaft which may be any variety of shape, rabbits,
butterflies and dolphins being popular. Most have separate
controls for each action. There are wearable vibrators
that have straps to keep them in place. There are also
vibrating bullets, G-Spot vibrators and anal vibrators.
Vibrators are made from a wide variety of materials, colors
and size.
How to Choose a Vibrator
It can be overwhelming to select a vibrator. Here are
some things to consider:
1. What do you want this toy to do for you (or
your partner)?
- If this is your first vibrator consider starting out
with something small, soft and gentle.
- Are you looking for something to provide internal
stimulation for the G-Spot? Then consider a toy with
a curve. The G-Spot is located about one and a half
to two inches inside the front vaginal wall. Use the
curve pointing toward the front (belly button) of the
woman's body.
- A dual-action vibrator is ideal if you are looking
for external clitoral as well as internal stimulation?
- Do you have difficulty achieving orgasm or need something
more powerful? If so, look to the multi-function vibe
or bullet for intense direct stimulation.
- Do you want something you control with your hand,
or do you want your hands free for exploration?
2. What do you want your toy to feel like?
- Do you want something that feels realistic to the
touch? Then you definitely want something made of silicone,
Cyberskin, or Virtual Touch; these materials are pricier
than plastic, jelly or rubber, but feel very realistic.
- Do you want something soft that feels realistic, but
is more affordable? Most vibrators made of jelly or
rubber will warm to your body temperature.
- Would you prefer a toy that you can use in the water?
Then a vibe that is waterproof is the best choice for
you.
3. What size do you prefer? Small, medium or
super-sized?
- Are you just beginning to experiment with toys? Then
you may want to start with a smaller vibe.
- Do you want something average that won't likely be
intimidating to bring into your relationship? Look at
the dimensions of the vibrator. Typically there will
be information about the length and girth. If a toy
is uncomfortable or too small to please, then you'll
be frustrated and unhappy.
- Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? Again,
make sure to look at the dimensions so you're not surprised.
Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories:
After you have selected your vibrator, make sure you
have the following:
- Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for
your toy. The description and the box your vibe comes
in should say what size is needed.
- Lubricant! There are many different types and a variety
of prices. Read about the importance of using a quality
lubricant here!
- Toy cleaner. Care for your toy and keep it clean.
Using a toy cleaner will prolong the life of your toy,
keep it clean and preserve the material.
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