| A water or silicone-based
formula used to make masturbation or intercourse more
pleasurable by enhancing the sensations and providing
a slippery feel. Ingredients and prices vary, but water-based
lubes are the most widely used as they are appropriate
for most sex toys (they won't cause damage to pricey silicone
and realistic) and are safe to use with condoms. Silicone-based
lubes are generally for use in water, but are also popular
with couples because they don't get sticky or dry out,
reducing or eliminating the need for reapplication. Lubricant
comes in many forms: liquid, gel and creams. Thicker lubes
are often used for anal play and sometimes include a desensitizer.
How to Select a Lubricant
Here are three questions to take the guess work out of
choosing a lube!
1. What do you want this lube to do?
- Are you looking for a lubricant that feels as natural
as possible? Then a water-based lube may be more to
your liking. Affordable and available in a wide selection,
you can experiment with different lubes without spending
a lot of money.
- Do you want something that won’t get sticky
or dry out? A silicone-based lube is ideal because it
doesn't absorb into the skin. It's also perfect for
use in the water and with waterproof toys!
- Will you be using this lube for anal play? You'll
probably want a thicker lubricant, possibly with a desensitizer
in the formula.
2. What characteristics do you want in your lubricant?
- Try a flavored lube if you are looking to make oral
play even more pleasant.
- Try a lube that warms or that includes different ingredients
such as ginseng, L-Arginine or even yohimbe to kick
it up a notch. Some people feel heightened sensations
with these all-natural ingredients!
- Be sure to read the description to ensure the lube
is condom-safe if you will be using it with condoms.
Oil-based products are never safe to use with condoms.
3. Does size matter?
- Would you like something to keep handy in the bedroom?
Then you would probably prefer a larger size container
that is easy to dispense from.
- Do you prefer something that you can throw into your
purse or overnight bag? Two ounces or less is perfect
for on the go.
- Are you interested in having a variety of lubes to
try? Most lubricants come in various sizes, making it
easy to try several. It's fun to mix and match!
Things to Keep in Mind:
- If you’re not sure about the best way to use
lubricant or if you should even use it, get more information.
- Concerned about reactions or irritation? If you experience
discomfort after applying a lubricant, wash it off immediately.
You might try a few before you find one that works well
for you!
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