Anal Toy Guide

What is an Anal Toy?

A sex toy created specifically for anal use. It may be a vibrator, dildo, butt plug or beads. Anal toys have flared bases to ensure they do not travel past the sphincter and into the rectum. Often anal toys will feature a curved tip for male prostate stimulation. Anal beads are sphere-shaped beads strung together that can be used during climax by pulling out bead by bead to enhance orgasm. These should be made of one continual, sturdy strand of material with an easy-to-grip handle on one end. These, too, may be made of any material, with jelly and latex being the most popular.

How to Choose an Anal Toy:

Selecting an anal toy can be intimidating. These questions help make it easy!

1. What do you want this toy to do for you (or your partner)?

  • Are you a first-time explorer? Then you definitely want something small, smooth and probably non-vibrating. Also, be sure it has a flanged base.
  • Have you used toys before and now want a different sensation? Try anal beads, vibrating plug, or a multi-action vibrator.
  • Want a toy to use with a partner? Try something harness-compatible.
  • Do you want to explore prostate stimulation? Look for a toy with a pronounced curve at the end or something that rotates. Many G-Spot toys may be used for this purpose, but make sure they have a safety base before you use them anally!

2. What do you want this toy to feel like?

  • Do you want something that's more pliable? Then you want something made of silicone, jelly or a realistic material.
  • Are you more interested in different shapes and specific spot stimulation? An acrylic or glass dildo is ideal. Available in a variety of size and shapes, these toys can also be heated or chilled for very different sensations.
  • Is something that most resembles a penis what you really crave? Look for traditional or lifelike toys. Many are actually molded from the real thing!

3. What size interests you? Petite, average or something super-sized?

  • Are you just beginning to experiment with anal toys? Then you'll probably want to start with a small, smooth dildo or graduated anal beads that allow you to start with the smallest bead and work your way up.
  • Have you had some experience with anal toys and want something a little larger or with some texture? Look into harness toys or anal plugs, as they often come in a variety of sizes. Some anal plugs will expand to any size you choose.
  • Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? There are many anal vibrators and beads that are longer than average. Look at the dimensions because what may be average for some may not be the same for you!

Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories:

After you have selected your vibrator, make sure you have the following:

  • Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your toy. The description and the box your toy comes in should say what size is needed.
  • Lubricant! The anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, making it extremely important to use lubricant with anal toys. You may also want to look for something with a desensitizing agent. There are many different types and a variety of prices. Read about the importance of using a quality lubricant here!
  • Toy cleaner. Care for your toy and keep it clean. Using a toy cleaner will prolong the life of your toy, keep it clean and preserve the material.